## nothing to be proud of ] %% life@@

See also [2] ##4 qualities I admire in%%peers #!!status and
[1] ##envy Them constantly; !!celebrat`family,achievements..

Once a while in a young person’s life she(he) find herself (rather than her life) despicable in every way —

  • studies
  • dating
  • body image
  • fitness
  • team sports, not part of any “gang”
  • ….When we grow older we have some of these same “whiplashes” + some new whiplashes, which we use to beat ourselves up:
  • profession
  • home location, home size, school district
  • personal investments including properties
  • monthly saving rate
  • plenty of life-chances available to me throughout my life

I think in such a situation we desperately need concrete, tangible evidence of personal achievement (not necessarily visible to other people). Here are some evidence to congratulate myself and defend myself against the whipping:

  • wife and kids — see [1]
  • SGP citizenship — see [1]
  • education credentials — see [1]
  • personal finance — see [1]
  • profession — see the first list in [1]
  • knowledge + experience about diet and wellness — see [2]
  • introspective or expressive writing and blogging — as a versatile coping, self-improvement, self-discovery device
    • English proficiency — I struggled for years and now I’m able to use English for expressive writing — something unimaginable in my teenage years.

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